Here I’m back to my blog!

Hello to all my voxy neighbours…J

I knew, I was inactive from past few months now..…yeah, I was gone!....surely I’m gone…because, you know there was something ‘gone’ into my mind, my soul and my heart…yes, something ineffable thing which I never experienced it in my life until now….probably that might be the reason why I was gone…but subsequently, I was behind it to understand what is all about it!

Seriously, I don’t have any clue…how it happened. I never even thought off... I’ll be game for it @such an early! It completely sounds like serendipity! Yes indeedJ

You know time is something very mysterious thing which god has created it...you actually dunno what’s gonna happen within a min!...so, apparently how come this poor boy can handle such a time where it demanding for a beautiful yet an intrigue journey!  Finally, I was succumb to the thin slicings or tipping pointsJ…whatever you may call it..

I also feel like, it’s a kind of a thing, which I hardly got anything to stop that…I feel, its  like mercurial never ever shows its clear picture…now that is something very intrigue ..ha!

Let me experience this passage….dunno, where I’m gonna land up but experiencing such a totally unconditional and unbounded expedition is something very fascinating for me…now that’s what makes me go for it!

Moreover, to judge anything is something I don’t like to…after all, it’s in nascent stage, totally no clue what’s there along the road… but my optimistic heart says…keep going…may be i find my destiny…who knows!!!….so, better I should keep walking! Carpe diem is the mantra..which exactly what this boy is doing nowJ

Au revoir!

I don’t know how I can describe about the person whose words mean so deep and thoughtful for me… easily I can say I never read or heard from anybody till now. Yeah…sounds really weird but that’s what I feel right now….  How can I describe such an innately gifted lady whose works left an indelible impressions on few of souls across the globe …luckily I think I’m just fortunate to be one among them. Yes, definitely there is no need to boast about it because that’s the real truth. By the way I don’t think a person whoever understands her thoughts and ideas clearly didn’t sought after to register her/himself in the list of Rand’s aficionados.

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“The lady with a real mettle”

In fact, even I haven’t known about my real persona clearly…until I read her book called ‘The Fountainhead’… Though, I discern it’s just a novel which is fictitious but it’s not lesser than any good Non-fiction work which tries to explain some real stuff!

I know it has been very late from my end to understand what are my definite moral fiber and my inner self…yet, thank god it hasn’t gone astray!

I’m truly one of those lucky readers whoever read her books. She is just amazing lady…really world has seen great stuff from Russian born American philosopher.

You know, I have never known something there exist a subtle mean behind a word called ‘Objectivism’!  Thanks to ‘The Fountainhead’ it has made me to recall all those episodes in my life which has occurred in the past and given many insights to the present happenings which were somewhat connected to it.

Funny thing you know, I wasn’t aware what are these specific technicalities of human persona, character and attitude etc stuff whatever Rand was enlightened in the book… but I was still blessed with all these qualities inherently; it’s just that I wasn’t aware. May be it happens with everybody! It’ll be good if you are of aware of these aspects much earlier in life, as there’ll be a chance of transcending.

Let me share something my experiences with the Rand’s book… I can boast by saying  my real ‘I’ is almost closely similar to the protagonist ‘Howard Roark’ in the novel. Like him, I’m the man of self-conviction, always independent and never bother about recognitions from others. Right now that’s the reason why I hate myself as I’m working under somebody and I’m sure it’ll be only for short term …its mainly due to my current circumstances otherwise I’m not the man of such a kind of choice. I ain’t like to nod my head to their god damn rules.
Doesn’t matter it might give signs of arrogance but that’s how others take it which I consider it in other way i.e. concern with one’s own interests. I believe man’s self passion and possession is more important than any other. Never try to be a Second-hander always be yourself just YOU!

“Concern with his own interests is the essence of a moral existence, and that man must be the beneficiary of his own moral actions.”

I do whatever I like and I like whatever I do. Its fastidious character…probably that’s the reason why I end up with very few friends. You know I almost never tried or try to visit my relatives as I don’t like their crappy shit which they try to rub-off. Of course, for that I don’t have any regrets or guilty over ME …because whatever friends I have, all of them are phenomenal :). Quality matters and that’s more than enough for me.

On the other hand unlike Roark, I’m not wholly atheist but I’m an agnostic person and seldom will even accept on point ‘there might exist something which is incomprehensible or heavenly thing.’ Also I feel some of the circumstances in my life were totally different to match up Roark but certainly the attitude is absolute match. And yeah, unlike Roark even sweet heart ‘Dominique’ is missing in my life J

The Fountainhead

Ayn Rand

This book contains lots of wonderful dialogues  its hard for somebody to pick a particular one but having said that one dialogue I think I like very much …

“You’ve made a mistake already. By asking me. By asking anyone.Never ask people. Not about your work. Don’t you know what you want? How can you stand it, not to know?”….
P.S:  This is the Roark’s reply for the Keating’s argument

One thing for sure to understand Ayn Rand’s views one need to be open minded and I’m aware there will be always a chance of clash of orthodox values with her words.

Well anyway, this is how an over enthusiastic booklover try to correlate his real life impressions with Rand’s first best seller …I’m nuts about her writing J
It’s not just mere an another fiction book but the book with profound substance!

I’ll be completing all of her writings unhurriedly…definitely slowly after all they are not simple books J

There may be days when you get up in the morning and things aren't the way you had hoped they would be. That's when you have to tell yourself that things will get better.

There are times when people disappoint you and let you down, but those are the times when you must remind yourself to trust your own judgments and opinions, to keep your life focused on believing in yourself and all that you are capable of.

There will be challenges to face and changes to make in your life, and it is up to you to accept them. Constantly keep yourself headed in the right direction for you. It may not be easy at times, but in those times of struggle you will find a stronger sense of who you are, So when the days come that are filled with frustration and unexpected responsibilities, remember to believe in yourself and all you want your life to be, because the challenges and changes will only help you to find the goals that you know are meant to come true for you.

Hello People,

Today is WEDding day....well, i'm not talking about either my wedding or somebody's BUT  World Environment Day….let’s sign the petition saying we do our best to save our mother planetJ

Here's my deal...

Its my Deal!

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Today while reading something in the office….in between freedom and compulsion got struck me….anyway what do you think about the freedom and compulsion?

Well as a commoner …oblivious reply could be… those two words are opposites. Isn’t it?

But think little deep by adding some rational quotient……take your own time….probably you might have something different answer!

To solve the enormous problems crushing the world today, we must clarify our mental confusion.

We must acquire a philosophical perspective. In essence, freedom and compulsion are one.

Let me give you a simple illustration.

In our routine, we know traffic lights restrain our freedom to cross a street whenever we wish.

But this restraint gives us the freedom from being run over by a truck.

Similarly another paradigm,

If you were assigned to a job and prohibited from leaving it, it would restrain the freedom of your career. But it would give you freedom from the fear of unemployment.

Whenever a new compulsion is imposed upon us, we automatically gain a new freedom. The two are inseparable. Only by accepting total compulsion we can achieve total freedom.

I think right now, I know I’m really stretching myself as hard as I can….after all I want my dream school... now here too it might sound like compulsion from my side….but you know this compulsion will raise my performance and eventually helping me to get freedom….yes, freedom in the form of my dream….after all what more will be one wanted when he gets what he dreamt of!

Responsibility is the most vital thing ….but this has to be looked holistically....not just for namesake!

In our lives we claim responsibility for anything good that happens, but we don’t take responsibility for anything bad that happens. Only if we take up responsibility for everything that happens in our lives will we start growing.

As Great philosopher, Swami Vivekananda once said: “Take as much responsibility as you can shoulder. The more responsibility you take, the more you expand. Expansion is the only growth; without expansion, you will contract and die.”

Here let me share a little story which i read recently....it goes like this....

Once a man was giving a talk on Responsibility at the Charity Club. He gave an example of what happened a few days earlier. He said, “A friend and I were walking down the street towards the park when we saw a helpless man lying unconscious on the road.” He paused and looked at the concerned faces of the audience.

Then he continued, “Nobody had bothered to help him. Not only that, when we came back after our walk, the poor man was still lying there!” It never occurred to the man that he could help! Instead of blaming others, let us look into ourselves and see what we are doing to solve the problem! We always find fault with others. But how many times do we ourselves do something to address the issue?

Understand: when we declare that we will do whatever we can for people, when we stand up with responsibility, we expand and the divine energy flows through us.

Can air flow through a blocked bamboo? No! A blocked bamboo will only help carry a corpse to the graveyard. The same bamboo will become a flute when it is hollowed out! As long as you are self-centred, you will serve like the blocked bamboo. When you are free from ego and stand up with responsibility, the expansion happens and you become like the bamboo flute. Then, just as the air that enters the bamboo leaves it as music, so, too, will the air that enters you flow through you as energy, and things will happen through you!

If you feel responsible for whatever is happening around you, you start transforming your life and others’ lives. Responsibility is one of the ways to consciously grow. You only need to do two things: trust that life is good and know that you can expand to the responsibilities that you take up.

Most of us wait for the status to come in order to take up the responsibility. Be very clear, it never works that way. Only if you take up responsibility will the status come. The more responsibility you take up, the more you grow. Only when you feel responsible for all that is happening around you do you become a leader. Until then you are just a follower. Be blissful!

For Mom and Dad on your 30th Happy Anniversary...

Love you!

It's love that makes a house home....

and warms it through and through

It's love that keeps a family close...

in all they plan and do

May your life be blessed with joy!

No one deserves more happiness than you....

 Thank you, mom and dad...

for the wonderful example of your love and marriageJ

Happy Anniversary

Really…words are the verbal embodiment of power…..

Have a look at this below quote from Great Indian Philosopher...Patanjali.

Patanjali

“When you are inspired
By some great purpose,
Some extraordinary project,
All your thoughts break their bonds:
Your mind transcends limitations,
Your consciousness expands in every direction,
And you find yourself in a new,
Great and wonderful world.
Dormant forces, facilities and talents
Become alive, and you discover yourself
To be a greater person by far
Than you ever dreamed
Yourself to be.”

" Truly there are no mistakes in life,

  but only lessons.

                     There is no such thing as a negative experience,

             but only

                          Opportunities to grow,

                                learn and advance along the road of self mastery."

                                          ©naresh

‘Love’ …..why is this topic suddenly come into my mind…I just don’t have an exact reason…that’s the beauty of this sweet feeling…nobody exactly knows the reasonsJ…Anyway on Sunday as I was shopping and searching for some of Erich Segal’s books...hope that tells you the reason why this subject raised of sudden! Was actually searching for the ‘Class’ book but that poor guy only left with title called ‘Love Story’. This book was written and published over 39years ago…I don’t have any clue about this fact until this Sunday!

Love Story

Erich Segal

This book was written well…though very short just over 200 odd pages and simple lingo made me to complete within few hours to exactJ…Eh...that’s quick!

Story is good and it’s about a Preppie...Harvard Jock called Oliver Bratt and a young beautiful lady called

Jennifer…she is Radcliffe librarian…at Harvard School.

It’s a simple story with subtle mean…"Love means never having to say you're sorry".

Really touching …Segal had given life to every dialogue though it might sounds short but very mean!

Bythway, can I say its unfortunate to get disturbed myself with this serious topic!...nope not at all ….I won’t say that instead I thank to Segal’s book…because of this I lost myself in  this translation…really was thinking about love though I didn’t yet fell in love but loves to be in love…yeahJ. Love is really sweetest feeling on earth I certainly wanna have it.

But dunno, when I’m gonna have my love’s presence in my life! Seriously, for that I should explore and expose to the outer world as much as possible…as my friend puts it like this

 ‘You got meet new people at various places otherwise its hard honey to get your Honey!’  Eh…sounds true.

You know my expectations for love is…the girl with an attitude and little brain is enough but needs sweet caring lady!  Excuse me, my offer for her will not be bad at all… I promise not just stick to lip service but truly live up to it. She is gonna have Man with an attitude and loads of love & caring! Yeap, this is all I offer…no boasting please! I make sure, she never ever gets hurt in her life because of anything...Amen!

Dunno, how many of people are listening to my heart…and seriously how many people believe this boy with an age of 26yrs 259days? But again do I really think is this all matters to me…absolutely not! As an old maxim says …where there is a will there is a way…if the girl is with genuine heart and got will then she gives herself a chance and understands me for sure. Nevertheless, I have not tried seriously but sure I’ll get into this …let me complete the task at my hand! Though multitasking is the mantra…but you know finding love is The Hardest Job…because it needs loads of energy and mental presence. After all…it’s a selection of choice for the whole LIFE!

Got ample of time and thanks to god… he created a world which is big enough to find my love! J

Finally, thanks Segal…for knocking a chord in my heart…you are a genius author on this subject I bet nobody beats you!

Au revoir